Sunday, January 21, 2007

What happened to the fun part?

Was reading through some fellow queer friends' blogs just now, damn they are so much fun to read with all the self-bitchiness and sexcapades, really reminded me back when the time while I was still able to write so much fun in my blogs with all my 'witty' remarks and self-deprecating humours (being the big cynic that I am).

Now all I write about are the technical, depressing, paragraphs-spanning, head-rolling theses on relationships, relationships and more relationships.. I think maybe I have become a bit too self-absorbed in my recent obsessions with finding The One that I have kinda lost the fun in me.

As much as I like blogging, usually I don't really like reading others' blogs, cos I'm kinda lazy when it comes to reading mundane details. And some people like me tend to have the compulsive urge to describe every little details on perfectly unremarkable things.

Which was why it was rare when I found myself pouring through each and every one of those fellow bloggers' blogs just now, while trying with great difficulty not to dislocate my jaws by laughing too hard at some of their most entertaining and hilarious posts (be they intended or not) or being curiously engrossed in their most lucid sexual encounters. Thinking it would be a waste not to share such gem finds with fellow friends, I have decided for the first time that I shall put up links to these other blogs. Hope some of you would enjoy reading them as much as I did :-)

On a side note, I'm still on the Desperate Housewives viewing marathon, am now into their third season, and I'm afraid I'm only getting more addicted to this series than I probably should. Everything depicted in it are just so interesting cos there are so many things going on. I didn't realise I could be so much into soap operas, with all the dramas and such, but this show really hit me at my weak spot for witty comedies and moving drama. It really didn't come as a surprise to me when I found out that the creator of the show is openly gay, cos if you ask me, if anyone who can pull off such an insightful show into relationships, he/she has to be gay, cos gays tend to play the role of both sexes and this allows us to understand the dynamics of relationships better. Well not to say that I have made DH my new relationship bible, but it did help put a new perspective on many things for me.

On a side side note, I recently turned down re-ignition of two old flames. Not sure why they came at the same time, but the timing couldn't been better (or worse depending on which side you are), cos eventhough with A where I stand now is still ambiguous ground, one thing is for certain, when I have got over someone, it's really near to impossible for me to turn back again.

Darn, already 3 a.m.! Where did all the time go?

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