Sissiness

To me, sissiness is somewhat like a taboo among the gays. I myself usually do not dare to comment such on my friends, cos I'm afraid that I might offend them.

Most gays prefer guys who are straight-acting, and as such straight-acting is deemed as somewhat of a desirable trait. Like I said, some might even take offence if being told that they are sissy.

However what most of us do not realise is that, sometimes no matter how much we might (love to) think that we are very macho/straight-acting, the fact is, it is probably just ourselves who didn't realise that we maybe sissy to a certain degree.

Take instance like me, I always thought that I'm a very straight-acting guy (seriously :-P). But when I had the chance to look at myself from some recorded videos showing my natural behaviours, I notice I can be embarassingly sissy at times, without myself realising that I was being sissy!

And it is not uncommon for me to come across people who claimed that they are straight-acting in their profile, when the fact is, one can easily spot them as a 'sister' from stones' throw away.

Make no mistake, I do not despise people who are sissy, cos to me, they can be really great friends and are really fun to be with due to their often vibrant characteristics. However when it comes to triggering my desire, straight-acting is still the main ingredient.

Hence my love for Mr. 'Badass' Russel Crowe, right? :-P